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比担心未来更可怕的,是过不好现在|普通人的焦虑自救指南
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<div class="rich_media_content" id="js_content"><section style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62);"><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section class="wx-image" style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTeLXwAVqMfYnulYzXYQflRb5XY8RicmropkKLP2tBpldLOKMia17UBDlg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>最近,我闺蜜的公司受经济环境影响开始大裁员,而闺蜜也身在其列。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>在30岁的年纪,受大环境的影响导致失业,而找工作却又频频碰壁,这一切成了扎在她神经中的一根针。加上生存和情感的压力,随时随地都在加剧着她的焦虑,让她快要喘不过气。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>很多个早晨,我一起床拿起手机就会看到聊天软件显示着多条未读消息,点开不出意料是她又失眠了。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: left; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 50%;"><section><section style="line-height: 0; text-align: center;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 100%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTF5oPoJUpZr02gwiaYLp82c7cNEhtneLibNrKqPOeia3VFW9Q0tR9vbayA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 50%;"><section style="display: inline-block;"><section style="line-height: 0; width: 100%;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTCfFbVNhASCub4c1DCX8kAicHTuuwAEicQpicxrATEoPDffTm4glFAfrcQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>平时她是我们几个姐妹里最活跃最充满朝气的,我们称她为小太阳,总能被她爽朗的笑声治愈。但现在她因为焦虑睡眠质量严重下降,总是有气无力的,不仅感觉人变老了几岁,甚至快要抑郁了。出于对朋友的关心我们时常会约她出来聊天散心。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>最近我惊喜地发现她的状态在慢慢恢复!不自觉紧皱的眉头终于再次被笑容取代。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: left; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 50%;"><section><section style="line-height: 0; text-align: center;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 91%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTrUvbYVvcPfNiaOflnx9s2IQqs7ByMB2hSFjUdMnJkGhoAS48oUAK56A/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 50%;"><section><section style="line-height: 0; text-align: center;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 91%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJT0WYe5gUbdDvicJUjJrpUFf1FPqkFvukRoic31bRSF9dbnzcHVqnW7gicw/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>而每个人都难免有焦虑的时候,前些天例行约饭时,我们向她讨教平复焦虑,找回平静和快乐的秘诀。她直接从小包里拿出一个小本子。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><section style="line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTiaVPpGXKJtjMnQp675ZJJ2Kico5BX4vkhAcG3yJSDXtAfdx31fnzqQGg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>她说秘诀就是——</span><strong><span><span>重新拿起笔写字</span></span></strong><span>!</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>尤其是在这个手机时代,每个人都匆匆忙忙,似乎不得片刻闲余。然而在书写的过程中,她感觉思绪得到了一种沉淀,并且逐渐感到放松。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>她原本想要通过听课或者专业心理咨询来解决焦虑失眠的问题。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>但失业的人,原本就会为暂时失去经济来源而忧心,更何况面对价格相对较高的课程和咨询呢。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>偶然的机会,她在网上看到一个博主推荐通过</span><strong><span><span>【表达性书写】</span></span></strong><span>来调节情绪,原本只是抱着试一试的心态,却出乎意料地帮她快速走出了那段最黑暗的时光。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><section style="line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTYLELicibXD8Sp90zWJQyJicibKs6lCpqwiaoYBRxR1kd68YtHm8bUsgkpfw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p><strong><span>表达性书写</span></strong></p><p><strong><span>释放消极情绪</span></strong></p></section></section><section><section style="margin-top: 5px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>面对不良情绪,如果只是一味地去压制和回避,就很容易被其吞噬,影响身心健康。所以我们需要正视它,并且给它一个合理的释放渠道。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>表达性书写则是一种不受时空限制,简单易行并且科学有效的心理自助技巧。可以减轻压力,缓解负面情绪,帮助入睡安眠,增强免疫力,提升身心健康。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><section style="line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTcyr22vcgG725Qc7NY0J3hbOwsbS8g1VcqAXgA9pkZC5mWAVWr791aQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>虽然表达性书写非常简单,但与单纯的写日记、记录生活还是存在一定区别。那么该</span><strong><span>如何开始书写练习,每天应该记录些什么</span></strong><span>,有什么技巧、要点呢?</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>推荐大家使用由KnowYourself出品的</span><strong><span><span>心理功能手账</span></span></strong><span>。她递给我们的</span><strong><span><span>「CHILL」</span></span></strong><span>就是系列手账里专门针对焦虑问题的。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span>当你深陷焦虑,彻夜难眠时——</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span><strong><span>《告别焦虑》</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><span>带你找回平静,拥抱幸运</span></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span>戳链接立购</span></strong><strong style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); font-size: 93.75%;"><span>👇</span></strong></p><section class="mp_common_product_iframe_wrp"></section><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>手账里面的tips,不但手把手地教你进行书写练习,帮你快速上手,更能够帮助</span><strong><span><span>深度觉察自己,找回平静,告别焦虑。</span></span></strong></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>闺蜜告诉我们,她在焦虑时脑海总会浮现很多负面又消极的想法。比如:”我是一个没用的人,我太糟糕了……“</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>而手账里“</span><strong><span><span>积极的自我对话</span></span></strong><span>”练习恰好可以帮助自己从糟糕的情绪中脱离出来,并将焦虑转化为动力。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><section style="line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTr5E3Lyy2ibTNj4fBibTrs9NCrQwy9b0Bsv8QIpSickTIqE0UibszFBCbhw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>回到家后,出于对新鲜事物的好奇心,我也立刻下单了一本KnowYourself的心理功能手账,目前使用了快3周,下面我就结合我的使用感受给大家圈重点👇</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p><strong><span>专业研发</span></strong></p><p><strong><span>口碑推荐</span></strong></p></section></section><section><section style="margin-top: 5px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>它是KnowYourself专业心理学团队,历时90天,翻阅3000+专业文献,以表达性书写为核心,融合了专业心理测试和趣味心理学小工具的心理功能手账。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>当你情绪低落、感觉迷茫时,总能在它的引导下得到安慰、并且发现新的可能,就像是一个</span><span><strong><span>24小时陪伴的私人心理导师</span></strong></span><span>。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p><strong><span>高性价比心理练习工具</span></strong></p></section></section><section><section style="margin-top: 5px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>如果你无法投入大量时间与精力,专注并坚持上课;如果你还没有做好与陌生人建立信任的准备,并且无法承担高额的咨询费。那么不妨从一本</span><strong><span><span>随时随地</span></span></strong><span>能够帮助你</span><strong><span><span>心灵安抚</span></span></strong><span>的手账开始。</span></p></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><section style="line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJTLD4Llu5icdrmAPJdEyMAbAVw3CaFxjETFWlETWcRFcra0sI2r5u4DWQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; text-align: justify; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>去小红书随便搜了搜,你还会惊奇地发现竟然有超多博主都推荐过,口碑超好~</span></p></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0em;"><section style="line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJT9ib9v7lcHm99Hjk6JmbfcYbJ1trI55icoiblZgCDItAllRykn9JghoJPw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p><span><br /></span></p></section></section></section></section><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p><strong><span>心灵自助</span></strong></p><p><strong><span>重获新生</span></strong></p></section></section><section><section style="margin-top: 5px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>焦虑时,除了失眠,闺蜜也因为失业陷入了深深的自我怀疑中,所以她还购入了</span><strong><span><span>【摆脱低自尊2.0</span></span></strong><strong><span><span>】</span></span></strong><span>手账。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>在书写中,她慢慢找回了自信,也发掘出自己更多的优势和闪光点。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>重整出发的她,也遇到了更好的,更加适合她的工作机会,生活也变得顺遂!这大概就是印证了</span><strong><span><span>“吸引力法则”</span></span></strong><span>吧~当你改变,一切都会改变!</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="display: initial;"><section style="line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: baseline; display: inline; line-height: 0; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIZibre8Cf80F2kEd8qIkmJT1qI4mkbzsY72VP62ibzNbBbiaAcE0tvC88cSicgeibOOXgq20aibdkzSg2w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section><section style="text-align: center;"><p><span><strong><span><br /></span></strong></span></p><p><span><strong><span><br /></span></strong></span></p><p><span><strong><span>KY</span></strong></span><strong><span><span>《告别自卑FIND MY SPARK》</span></span></strong><strong><span>手账</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><span>现购买即赠价值69元心理课《重拾自信》</span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span>戳链接立购</span></strong><strong style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); font-size: 15px;"><span>👇</span></strong></p><section class="mp_common_product_iframe_wrp"></section><p><strong style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); font-size: 15px;"></strong></p></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p><strong><span> 更多主题 </span></strong></p><p><strong><span>你的心理加油包</span></strong></p></section><section><section style="margin-top: 5px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>除此之外它有很多不同的主题——</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><em><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160);"><span>当你不自觉被pua,深陷自责与贬低之中时</span><span><span>【告别自卑】</span></span><span>助你重塑自信</span></span></em></p><p style="text-align: left;"><em><span style="font-size: 15px; 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想要快速脱单,收获甜蜜恋爱的请进!!!
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margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><em><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span><br /></span></span></em></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>关于脱单为什么这么难,KY曾做过一项调研发现:大部分人都是被动单身,也就说,想脱单但因为各种原因无法脱单。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>我们不难发现,美好的爱情是相似的,</span><strong><span>但</span></strong><strong><span>脱不了单的原因则是各有各的不同和难处:</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 40px;"><li><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>有些人的难,</span><strong><span>难在渠道里,生活里连一个有潜力发展的对象都找不到,</span></strong><span>上dating app一接触便会发现体验并不友好;</span></p></li></ul><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 40px;"><li><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>有些人的难,</span><strong><span>难在缺乏爱的信心,一次次心动又失落的经历,</span></strong><span>对爱情的态度变成“间接性渴望,持续性恐惧”;</span></p></li></ul><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 40px;"><li><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>有些人的难,</span><strong><span>难在不会推进关系,</span></strong><span>想要和喜欢的人聊天,约ta出来dating,但</span><strong><span>总是莫名其妙地把关系弄得很尴尬;</span></strong></p></li></ul><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 40px;"><li><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>还有些人的难,</span><strong><span>是维持不住长期关系</span></strong><span>,开局无论有多甜蜜,但过不了三个月就高开低走,</span><strong><span>只能经历一次次短暂又不深刻的关系</span></strong><strong><span>……</span></strong></p></li></ul><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>也因此,我们会发现市面上越来越多那些“3招教你拿下心仪ta、如何撩动ta心弦……”这类纯套路课。试过的人便会发现,学了以后不仅无法脱单,更无法以此收获一段真诚而平等的关系~</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>或许有人会说,现在这个时代,人心浮躁,利益前置,谁还管真爱啊~但</span><strong><span>我们始终相信,有人和我们一样,在内心深处,仍然渴望那种赤诚、纯粹的心动</span></strong><strong><span>,</span></strong><span>真正的爱,是这个不确定时代中最为确定的幸福。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>我们也相信,总会有人在这个浮躁的世界中回归清醒,</span><strong><span>希望回归爱情本身,向内探索自己真正想要的爱情究竟是怎样,</span></strong><span>找到适合自己的节奏,</span><strong><span>收获一段真挚、平等、长久的关系。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>因此,这一次,</span><strong><span>我们希望能真正打破大家对脱单的固有认知与偏见,</span><span><span>从爱情本质出发,从真实自我出发</span></span><span>,</span></strong><span>研发一门</span><strong><span>真正符合当下成年人价值观的“爱情必修课”</span></strong><strong><span>。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>我们的初衷,并不是期望帮你尽快找个人,完成一次脱单而已;我们的课程,也不会教你快速搭讪、伪装自我、讨好他人的技巧,以此获得一段关系。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>但</span><strong><span>如果你期望认真</span><span><span>谈一段走心的恋爱</span></span><span>、和对方收获深度的情感联结;或是</span><span><span>遇见喜欢的人但不知如何推进</span></span><span>、如何发展为长期关系;亦或是空窗期太久,</span><span><span>想脱单但缺乏行动力</span></span><span>;又或是总遇见不合适的人、</span><span><span>一次次经历短暂不深刻的关系……</span></span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>那么,我们强烈建议你来参加,</span><strong><span>KY最新出品的这门:能帮助大家回归自我与爱情本质、精准定位你的脱单障碍,科学提升恋爱能力、收获高质量脱单的</span><span><span>「恋爱必修| 科学寻爱指南」:</span></span></strong></p></section><section><section style="text-align: center;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span><br /></span></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; 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margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>看到这里,如果你是KY老粉,强烈建议不要犹豫赶紧上车,毕竟早学习将帮助你尽早的收获爱情~</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>但如果你对课程内容还有疑惑,接下来我们将详细跟大家叨叨:</span><strong><span>为什么我们强烈建议想脱单、对爱情还抱有美好期待的你,一定要学习</span><span><span>脱单课程升级版——「爱情必修|科学寻爱指南」</span></span><span>👇</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>3w+真实情感案例拆解研究</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>一套系统、实操的脱单解决方案</span></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 5px 0px 0px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>毫不夸张地说,这门</span><span><strong><span>「爱情必修|科学寻爱指南」</span></strong></span><span>可谓我们主创耗时和精力都非常重的一门课程。我们不会教授你快速搭讪的技巧、放低自我的讨好、情感挽回的话术、失真过度的伪装……去“获得”一个人、一段关系。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>而是从</span><strong><span>脱单底层逻辑出发</span></strong><span>,结合</span><span><strong><span>3w+</span></strong></span><span>真实情感案例的沉淀与深入研究、100+专业心理学知识,</span><strong><span>融合社会心理学归因理论、行为改变模型设计课程框架,最终总结出一套真正适合当下成年人的系统科学脱单指南。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIGibmHniaumPdDTPia3NK96E3yLb0NXrWzxUHJY6gSRXiaWen2ITxbRhnbibw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>整个课程,我们会</span><strong><span>用直白的语言戳破脱单的套路与障碍,让你看清自己真正的爱情需求;</span></strong><span>也将用</span><strong><span>温暖的方式掰开揉碎,给到你少走弯路、可实操的科学脱单方案。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>也因此,这门课程将从</span><strong><span>内在激发改变的角度,设计4维度脱单行动计划:</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>配套专属设计的专业测评与练习,</span></strong><span>帮你科学定位脱单障碍、洞悉爱情本质的同时,从认知重构你的恋爱行为改变模式,识别对的人,收获和有好感的ta科学推进感情升温,建立深度、长久联结的实用方法,</span><strong><span>收获高质量的脱单。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span><br /></span></strong></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIGQaXYv5jU1KcXIicCP1dibc1SerlCicANGvA276rrB6vWgHvdvoL10jeDQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>我们相信,只有从底层看清爱情本质,才能改变对爱的认知与行动,</span><strong><span>真正收获一段滋养自己的关系,拥有好的爱情。</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>前沿视角圆桌对谈</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>轻松收获脱单解题新思路</span></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 5px 0px 0px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>事实上,在现实生活中,想要一段好的爱情,收获高质量脱单,真实的情况只会比我们想象中更复杂~</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>也因此,这一次我们特别设置了</span><strong><span>「圆桌对谈」形式,由KY主创对谈不同背景的神秘嘉宾,带大家一起用专业视角吃瓜现代爱情背后的真相,也解密那些可能会被消音的爱的范本。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIGZCzeSAG8ibFBW4jZSwmxyfciabpANq1rs7Zibg8ibwrN5OCtwfhKF8pQKA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>每场圆桌有趣有料、有理有据、深入浅出,带你轻松收获脱单新视角、新思考、新解法。</span></p></section><section><section style="text-align: center;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span><br /></span></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span><br /></span></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span>KY主创 诚意出品</span></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>「爱情必修 | 科学寻爱指南」</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>(自助纯享版)</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><span>爆款回归,立减170元</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><span><span>仅需329元!随报随学</span></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span>点击购买</span></span><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><span>👇</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIG1dQKrb6qicTUiaaRkItysdekKnU1n9ibcgwViaUwZ7vgEp6Dcb5WBSAENQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></strong></span></p></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>40+研发人员</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>打造专业寻爱指南</span></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 5px 0px 0px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>我们KY专业的研发团队,所有主创均来自北大、纽约大学、宾夕法尼亚大学、复旦等国内外一流院校心理学/社会工作硕士,</span><strong><span>以专业的心理学理论+丰富的亲密关系研究,打造专业的产品。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIG0HRk3ibdEhBc4Cqrc8HY9xibFOGYKVUTsKOTiaNqz4AT6HoaCiaTiaBrt9Q/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这门课程将分别从</span><strong><span>情感解惑、专业解析</span></strong><span>的角度,帮你从不同视角梳理目前情感现状、定位脱单障碍,扫清脱单问题。</span></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>「爱情必修 | 科学寻爱指南」</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>课程大纲详见</span></strong><span>👇</span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIGiabbbEnz3jL4VVddcwgaMIF8M42MZMS9ed0CudaoqHjXthbojjeiam0A/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>「爱情必修 | 科学寻爱指南」</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>你将完整收获</span></strong><span>👇</span></p><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIGFBMl683HWuWItHSeCp9gS5Cm4ZycGjhveHz0YoN88VEV8ibEvkiaEpdQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" /></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>最后说到价格,我们的</span><span><strong><span>「爱情必修|科学寻爱指南」</span></strong></span><span>,爆款回归</span><span><strong><span>仅需329元</span></strong></span><span>!</span></p></section><section><section style="text-align: center;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span><br /></span></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span><br /></span></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span>KY主创 诚意出品</span></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>「爱情必修 | 科学寻爱指南」</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>(自助纯享版)</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><span>爆款回归,立减170元</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><span><span>仅需329元!随报随学</span></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><span>点击购买</span></span><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><span>👇</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49);"><strong><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRJovmNmPmL9AjicmjzlIMibIG1dQKrb6qicTUiaaRkItysdekKnU1n9ibcgwViaUwZ7vgEp6Dcb5WBSAENQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></strong></span></p></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>最后,我们必须再次强调这门课程的研发初衷,</span><strong><span>我们绝不是期望帮你尽快找个人完成脱单。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>而是希望真正帮助到那些想要脱单、对好的爱情还充满希望,能不受当下浮躁环境影响,</span><strong><span>看清自己爱情需求本质,识别对的人,在好的爱情来临时,拥有勇敢接住、长久维系爱的能力。</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="text-align: right; white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>广告</span></span></strong></span></p></section><section><section style="text-align: center; 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非科班出身、想入行心理学,这里有一份专属通道
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margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>心理行业的确是一份前景广阔的事业。如今越来越多的人处于心理亚健康的状态,</span><span><strong><span>大家对心理服务有着庞大的需求,而从事心理专业的工作者始终紧缺。</span></strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>与此同时,自从2017年国家取消二三级心理咨询师证书,职业准入的门槛被抬高,学历的重要性愈发突出。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>在这种情况下,如果你对心理学感兴趣又非科班出身、且错过了咨询师的认证考试机会,可以考虑——</span><strong><span><span>西南大学首次推出的心理学同等学力申硕</span></span></strong><span>。</span></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>西南大学</span></strong><span><br /></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>心理学同等学力申硕</span></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 5px 0px 0px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span><span>西南大学(Southwest University) </span></span></strong><span>是教育部直属,教育部、农业农村部、重庆市共建的重点综合大学,国家</span><strong><span>“双一流”</span></strong><span>建设高校,</span><strong><span>“211工程”</span></strong><span>和“985工程优势学科创新平台”建设高校。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>心理学专业的培养工作由</span><strong><span><span>西南大学心理学部</span></span></strong><span>负责,其起源于20世纪50年代成立的西南师范学院教育系心理学教研室。</span></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin: 0px; text-align: center;"><section><section><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 20%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIEf3t0yicz9uRZ3L78GEI7FPqT10QkbEe9eM6S6oKT7nEjBYVxCjIUXm65kyNo0nU9Mrl139FoNMQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(249, 110, 87); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>西南大学心理学科发展历程:</span></strong></span></p></section><section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIEf3t0yicz9uRZ3L78GEI7Ffc9FIqauXqhficwMIDyewJmficbr79AKng5kuibWARheq0mhvziah3d5ibA/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section style="text-align: justify; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(51, 48, 48); padding: 0px 15px; line-height: 2;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>- 1986年设立心理学专业;</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>- 1988年成立心理科学研究所;</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>- 1994年成立心理学系;</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>- 2003年设立心理学院;</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>- 2011年12月组建心理学部。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>心理学部是国家“双一流”学科参与建设单位,是学校重点建设的研究型学部。</span></span></p></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><span>在教育部连续两轮学科评估中,西南大学</span><strong><span>心理学一级学科进入</span></strong></span><strong><span><span>全国A类</span></span></strong><span style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><strong><span>行列</span></strong><span>,</span><strong><span>应用心理专业硕士学位点进入</span></strong></span><strong><span><span>全国A类</span></span></strong><span style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><strong><span>行列。</span></strong><span>心理学人支撑西南大学神经科学与行为学、精神病学与心理学、社会科学总论三个学科领域相继进入</span></span><strong><span><span>ESI学科排名全球前1%</span></span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span><span><br /></span></span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><span>据2024年软科</span><strong><span>「中国最好学科-心理学」</span></strong><span>的排名,西南大学的心理学排名</span></span><strong><span><span>位列全国第四。</span></span></strong></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIEf3t0yicz9uRZ3L78GEI7FJz7psVRAADG4sG3OKeicJISSx7eEicJ5C9JXAibNJB4xkI5SlnZqyVxXg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><b><span>课程设置</span></b></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 5px 0px 0px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>参考同专业全日制学硕研究生课程培养方案,课表如下</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(具体以学校实际安排为主)。</span></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIEf3t0yicz9uRZ3L78GEI7FzINp7ibJ00OicJeAo9RRQiblNQnneI3LlcEgrPTyTEgCICs1aeuPqVyFw/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin: 0px; text-align: center;"><section><section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span><span>补充说明:</span></span></strong></p></section><section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIEf3t0yicz9uRZ3L78GEI7Ffc9FIqauXqhficwMIDyewJmficbr79AKng5kuibWARheq0mhvziah3d5ibA/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section style="text-align: justify; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(51, 48, 48); padding: 0px 15px; line-height: 2;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>(1) 应修最低学分 29 学分。其中必须课程最低23 学分</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span> (含学术活动+实践训练4学分,该学分由导师组审定)</span></span><span>,选修课程6学分。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span><br /></span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>(2) 学术活动指:同等学力申请硕士学位研究生在学习期间至少参加4次学术活动,并在研究生管理信息系统提交学术报告,导师审核,计2学分。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span><br /></span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>(3) 实践训练指:以某个实践活动为对象,采取案例的范式进行研究,撰写一份 3000字以上的案例研究报告</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(内容包括实践案例选取的背景与意义、案例分析的理论与技术、案例分析的过程与条目、案例分析的结论与启示等)</span></span><span>,导师审核,计2学分。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span><br /></span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span>(4) 以上课表仅供参考,具体以实际授课为准。</span></span></p></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>报名须知</span></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 5px 0px 0px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>1.申请条件:</span></strong><strong><span>同等学力申请硕士学位人员(以下简称“申请人”)必须符合下列条件。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>1)拥护《中华人民共和国宪法》,遵守法律、法规,品行端正;在工作岗位做出一定成绩,得到所在单位在思想政治表现、工作成绩、科研成果、业务能力、专业知识等方面的认可。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>2)须为学士学位获得者,且获得学士学位时间超过三年以上;或虽无学士学位但已获得硕士或博士学位者;或已获得通过了教育部留学服务中心认证的国(境)外学位。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>3)在申请学位的专业或相近专业做出成绩,学术水平或专门技术水平已达到所申请学位学科专业的毕业研究生同等水平。</span></span></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>2.申请流程:</span></strong></span><strong><span>信息注册→现场确认→资格审核→课程学习</span></strong><strong><span>→国家统考→论文阶段。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>2.1 现场确认说明:</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>信息注册完成后,在上海服务中心、西南大学(北碚校区)继续教育学院按要求提交材料。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>2.2 课程学习说明:</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>课程教学安排为1.5年左右。申请人修完所申请学科培养方案的全部课程并通过考试,可获得</span><span><strong><span>“西南大学同等学力申请硕士学位学科课程结业证书”</span></strong></span><span>。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>2.3 国家统考说明:</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>申请人须参加“同等学力人员申请硕士学位外国语水平和学科综合水平全国统一考试”</span><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(以下简称全国统考)</span></span><span>。全国统考报名时间为每年3月,考试时间为每年5月。</span><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(考试具体要求和安排以国务院学位委员会办公室文件通知为准)</span></span><span>从信息注册之日起,申请人须在</span><span><strong><span>48个月内</span></strong></span><span>通过培养方案规定的课程考试并取得学分、且通过全国统考。未能通过者,注销申请人在全国同等学力人员申请硕士学位管理工作信息平台上的申请信息。 </span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>2.4 论文阶段说明:</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>申请人通过培养方案规定课程考试并取得规定的学分和通过全国统考后,可以申请进入硕士学位资格审查阶段并缴纳学位论文阶段费用。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>申请人自通过申请硕士学位资格审查之日起,须在</span><span><strong><span>24个月内</span></strong></span><span>完成学位论文选题、开题及学位论文撰写,并通过学位论文评阅与答辩。未能按规定时间完成者,终止学位申请资格,不退还缴纳的费用,注销申请人在全国同等学力人员申请硕士学位管理工作信息平台上的申请信息。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>申请人通过培养方案规定的课程学习并取得规定的学分,通过学位论文答辩,完成期刊发表,遵守学术规范,达到硕士研究生水平的,</span><strong><span><span>可申请授予硕士学位</span></span></strong><span><span style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><span>。硕士学位证书样式如下:</span></span></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIEf3t0yicz9uRZ3L78GEI7F8fwAlZ3fzTXVo7ibsdII0jmvGQcXp8VGuvP1UoNY6MvPdzsV2xwK6LQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>其他说明</span></strong><span><br /></span></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 5px 0px 0px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>1. 同等学力人员申请硕士学位仅颁发硕士学位证书,不颁发毕业证书。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>2. 申请人不得同时向我校以外的其他学位授予单位提出学位申请。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>3. 申请人因来校学习,所产生的交通、食宿等费用自理。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>4. 课程学习费用不包括教材、学习资料费,全国统考报考费。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>5. 如果有新的政策调整,以国家最新文件为准。</span></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="padding: 0px 15px; color: rgb(51, 48, 48);"><p style="text-align: center; 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总想辞职,说明你和这份工作“性格不合”
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<div class="rich_media_content" id="js_content"><section style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62);"><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section class="wx-image" style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLwOIEpP3NUF8hOC3OhLO8s5fkJmQOCPBWmjibRuC2ajlnFSKo9icnH1cA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg&randomid=a8o6q8s0" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>大家好,我是测评实验室的潮汐,满脑子奇思妙想的ISFP理工女,今天想和大家分享一下,我毕业后的几段打(社)工(畜)故(经)事(历)。</span></p><p><span><br /></span><span>本科毕业的那个暑假,我留校当科研助理。我把这份工作视为一次难得的研究性学习机会,但是上岗后却发现和我想象的完全不同。每天的任务就是找错别字、改正语法、给文档排版。工作要求长时间集中注意力,对于我这个上课都会走神在脑子里搞创作的人来说,简直是一场噩梦。坚持了两个月后,我离职了。</span></p><p><span><br /></span><span>后来,我去了报社做实习记者。原本以为,在这里我可以发挥自己作为ISFP艺术家的写作天赋,但是这里的文章都是有固定格式的。所有的新人都需要经过严格的新闻稿撰写规则培训。我想创新,换一种思路引入,偶尔也会被ESTJ的理性原则派领导批评“班门弄斧”。不到半年,我又辞职了。</span></p><p><span><br /></span><span>从学校进入社会,找工作的确成为了很多人面临的第一个难题。两段体验感为负分的职场经历,让我开始反思,自己的性格,到底适合做什么。和身边的朋友讨论职业规划后,我发现大家都有类似的困惑:</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span><br /></span><strong><span>我的性格更匹配哪些行业?</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span>我新拿的offer所有人都说好,但适合我吗?</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span>工作的内容让我很痛苦,我要继续坚持吗?</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span>……</span></p><p><span><br /></span><span>MBTI火爆全网,我们也在想,是不是MBTI也可以用来匹配职业,性格和职业之间又存在着怎样的关系呢?今天,我们先来聊聊</span><span><strong><span>MBTI职业性格</span></strong></span><span>这个话题。</span></p></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span>👇</span><span><span><strong><span>购买测试,解秘自己的MBTI职业性格</span></strong></span></span><span>👇</span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section class="wx-image" style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLtFIXcZlCtylYu86rsQicIRib4QnEpPEAtWlJlwI6F7LIuS00SUzDeyOQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg&randomid=s80jwu14" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p><strong><span>职业性格有多重要?</span></strong></p></section></section><section><section style="margin-top: 5px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>事实上,每个人的性格特质构成了我们职业场景下的完整形象。这些性格特质在工作环境中的表现就是职业性格,如果它与工作匹配,就能够起到正向激励作用。 </span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>然而,如果不匹配,会对职业发展有多大影响呢?著名心理学家Boyatzis在1982年提出的</span><span><strong><span>洋葱模型</span></strong></span><span>,曾回答过这个问题。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span> 洋葱模型是用于评估</span><strong><span>“一个人是否能胜任某个岗位”的模型,它认为职业中“看得见”的知识技能,好像洋葱表皮,可以通过后天的努力培养</span></strong><span>;</span><span><strong><span>而职业性格是“看不见”的内核,它难以通过后天努力而改变,但对职业有着决定性的影响。</span></strong></span><span>(Richard Boyatzis,1982)</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="line-height: 0; text-align: center;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLwBicfsfx7tOv6d5Oib8qbpdtDEjkkKorN4NUqeG5CEgs1eL6mQp0uSTA/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg&randomid=qhb0irqk" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>衡量人能否做好一个工作,最直接的方式是看Ta的知识技能水平。但对于个人来说,</span><strong><span>如果能遇到与自己职业性格匹配的工作,过去的积累就能派上用场,潜力更易发挥,后续学习也会更有动力</span></strong><span>。如果两者相违背,哪怕一开始知识技能水平都达标,在后续的工作中,主动性也容易不足、学习新知识的欲望也有限。这个过程中,工作的热情也在慢慢被消耗。 </span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>这样看来,了解自己的职业性格,依据自己的职业性格选择适合的行业、工作和岗位就显得至关重要了。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section><section style="text-align: center; display: flex; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; height: auto;"><section><section style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160); font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.3;"><p><strong><span>如何了解自己的MBTI职业性格?</span></strong></p></section></section><section><section style="margin-top: 5px;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>想要找到适合自己职业性格的工作,最大程度地发挥自己的先天优势,最优先的</span><span><strong><span>第一步就是系统、正确地评估自己的职业性格</span></strong></span><span>。但网络上对于职业选择的信息繁杂,网友态度不一,难以帮助我们决策;</span><strong><span>定制化的职业咨询服务过于昂贵,不一定适用于每个人</span></strong><span>。这时,或许一个科学有效的性格测评工具可以帮到你。</span></p><p><span><br /></span><span>KY测评实验室依据Myers的理论,通过分析个人</span><span><strong><span>精神能量、信息获取、决策方式和生活态度</span></strong></span><span>把人的职业性格划分为</span><strong><span>16种类型</span></strong><span>,为对工作感到迷茫的你研发了【MBTI职业性格测试】,让你能够找到自己所属的职业性格类型,了解自己所具有的典型特征。</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="line-height: 0; text-align: center;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzL63MDqiaA2OIgMPJvcn8lsWRqia6KWVamdeYXYcdFZSnXYCRux6hVaTWQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg&randomid=w2izx39b" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>通过这个测试,你可以获得:</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><strong><span><span>01 | 专属的职业性格全解析</span></span></strong></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>测试将</span><span><strong><span>从四大方面详细分析你的MBTI职业性格特质</span></strong></span><span>,这能够为你解答你的职业性格究竟是什么样的,为什么你更适合某类工作,而不太适合另外一类工作,这些都受到我们内在的性格特质所影响。</span></p><p><span><br /></span><span>比如“INTP-发明家”类型的人,Ta们的优点是逻辑缜密、想象丰富、热爱理论思考并乐此不疲。但相反地,Ta们并不那么看重具象化的外部世界,也不大擅长处理繁杂的人情世故。 </span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>从这个角度来说,科研工作者、理论家等职业就很适合“发明家型”的人,在这样工作岗位上,“发明家”们能够深入地探究Ta们感兴趣的课题,并在思维世界中获得极大的快感,也更容易取得令人瞩目的外部成就。 </span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>但如果你让“发明家”们去做销售顾问、导游这种看重人际技巧且实践性强的工作,对Ta们可能就是一场灾难。</span><strong><span>从事不擅长的工作,Ta们不仅要忤逆自己的天赋本能来满足外界的要求,还可能因为缺乏正面反馈,在工作中充满挫败感。</span></strong></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzL0VedF1zPo4pDKsNSe2230EX54Ams6zTYw7vCoiceYZZJqHTkaBPIZ4A/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg&randomid=sjq2yw0h" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-right: 0%; margin-left: 0%;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top;"><section style="width: 100%;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"></svg></section></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><strong><span><span>02 | 详细剖析你的职业优势</span></span></strong></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>我们会从</span><strong><span>20个维度</span></strong><span>,深入挖掘你</span><strong><span>最突出的5种职业性格特点</span></strong><span>。如果你在工作中偶尔怀疑自己性格平平,不知道自己在工作中有什么长处,那这一部分的内容可以说是为你量身打造。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>我们会教你如何<span style="font-weight: bold;">从“发挥优势”的角度,来理解自己和职场相关的性格特点</span>。以及在什么样的环境/什么样的工作性质,会更有助于你发挥自己的优势。 </span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>相信我们精心准备的这部分内容,能够让你对自己的职场性格优势,有一个全新的了解和认识。</span></p></section><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p style="text-align: center;"><span>👇</span><span><strong><span>点击下图,购买测试</span></strong></span><span>👇</span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section class="wx-image" style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLtFIXcZlCtylYu86rsQicIRib4QnEpPEAtWlJlwI6F7LIuS00SUzDeyOQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg&randomid=5byt7mvu" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></section></section><section><p style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); text-align: center;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><strong><span>测试题数:100题 | 报告页数: 约25页</span></strong></span></p><p style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><strong><span>所需时长: 10-15mins | 测试价格:29.9 元</span></strong></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="color: rgb(54, 49, 49); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span>需要补充的是,我们所进行的20个维度的分析,结果可供参考。</span><strong><span>合适的工作不仅需要考虑性格,还需要相应的能力、积累丰富的经验,职场中很多问题并不是MBTI中的几个字母就能回答的。</span></strong><span>如果你现在正在人生的迷宫中跌跌撞撞,不知道要走向何方,那么这个测试或许可以帮你找出一条属于你的路。</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>如果你符合以下情况,那这份测试将帮助你看清前路: </span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><ul class="list-paddingleft-1"><li><p><span>不知道自己适合做什么工作,常常感到迷茫</span></p></li><li><p><span>对工作提不起热情,经常感到厌倦和疲惫</span></p></li><li><p><span>频繁想要跳槽,每份工作都觉得没意思</span></p></li><li><p><span>准备辞职,但也没想清楚下一步要做什么</span></p></li><li><p><span style="letter-spacing: 0.034em;"><span>每天努力工作却没有收获感,不知道问题出在哪儿</span></span></p></li></ul></section><section style="text-align: center; font-size: 12px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>部分图片来源于网络,侵权请联系</span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section class="wx-image" style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLJHKxyF17x8KC0RbCk8nuRGyUYlw8a37lgGfTfqPx9uicqia2dwCuK8Fg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg&randomid=4qc359yu" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="font-size: 12px; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; line-height: 1; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><p><span>References:</span></p></section></section><section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; height: 96px; padding: 10px; width: 97%;"><section style="overflow: hidden;"><section style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); text-align: justify; font-size: 12px;"><p><span>Briggs, K. C., & Myer, K. C. (1987). Myers-Briggs type indicator (MBTI). Palo Alto, CA: Psychologists Press Inc.</span></p><p><span>GU, X. Y., & HU, S. (2012). MBTI: New development and application. Advances in Psychological Science, 20(10), 1700-1708.</span></p><p><span>Myers, I. B. (1998). MBTI manual: A guide to the development and use of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Consulting Psychologists Press.</span></p></section></section></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px;"><p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>广告</span></span></strong></span></p></section><p><span><br /></span></p><section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLM59sTYqxmSc0Q7oiaR0CZib5WnZTEHcWMDNvUz7ENnvDv4x4KL8qd8Rw/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg&randomid=8ukvx8vm" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section class="wx-image" style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><a class="weapp_image_link js_weapp_entry" style="width: 100%;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLIzS2ApJ6p4pCeACnoASXyGYjv7Rd6Y3SaxBHsPzSvCPcbbSgcuTYWg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg&randomid=tlbdrh2s" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></a></section></section><section style="text-align: center; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160);"><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>我们同时提供专业的心理服务</span></p><p><span>包括:即时咨询、心理教练、心理咨询等</span></p><p><span>欢迎使用 知我心理小程序 或 知我心理APP</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; width: 75%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRIRh1Mbs3xsmD6vW5yQYvzLDufuBw2HLHf2Y8O2JpwuP8lem3KNAiazVJzIy6hQeEicHnBVSaXwtjlg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg&randomid=qai4srct" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><p><span><br /></span></p></section><p style="display: none;"></p></div>
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这种只针对女性的「善意」,最好越来越少!
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margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>最近一季的脱口秀,被步惊云的一个段子戳中了:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>在成为脱口秀俱乐部的老板之后,有人问她</span><strong><span>「如何平衡事业与家庭」</span></strong><span>。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>提问者想听到的答案无非是,女性如何付出多倍的努力去平衡事业与家庭间的关系、如何为自己因为事业「亏欠」了家庭而感到愧疚……</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>但步姐、所有女性早已厌烦这个问题和它背后隐藏的一切意图。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>她表示,</span><strong><span>平衡不了,全家都得过来帮我打工。</span></strong><span>老公检票,女儿引导观众,公公打扫卫生。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nibarcbpAZzwxJfMsANU6lLr095p9ianUVherjA13Pic3gCibSlIG8A1jOw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:腾讯视频《脱口秀和Ta的朋友们》</span></p></section></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>事实上,</span><strong><span>当「如何平衡事业与家庭」这样的问题,成为了只针对女性的提问,就构成了一种微侵略</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(Microaggression)</span></span><span>——以日常细节传递出对某一群体的否定、怀疑与边缘化,语气也许柔和,但背后是根深蒂固的偏见。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>生活中,还有很多隐藏在「为你好」「开个玩笑」伪装下的语言,持续侵犯着女性的主体性、尊严与权利。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>今天我们盘点了一些看似无害、实则冒犯的话语,试着回答一个问题:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>如何用一句话,「冒犯」一个女性?</span></strong></p></section><section><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 35%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nzq6SzicJ28e32VpC2t43Qc3RhLic41MvB4FfBicfLh1Fm3EMgfC1iajAiaQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>「为你好」背后</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>是善意的性别歧视</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRKvy3DqGGUlGVQddKetVT58JYiaytL1924BYecLnL9Z65oIA2qoNxY0qWnpmqJFQ1h3ib95nmxLwfxA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这些话披着体贴与爱护的外衣,内核却是隐形天花板:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>女性可以优秀,但别优秀到让我不安;你可以独立,但别独立到不需要我。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>1996 年,社会与心理学家 Peter Glick 和 Susan Fiske 指出有两种不同类型的性别歧视</span><sup style="font-size: 12px;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>[1]</span></span></sup><span>:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>一种是</span><strong><span>敌意型性别歧视</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(hostile sexism)</span></span><span>:对女性明确的贬低、压迫、消极态度。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>另一种是</span><strong><span>善意型性别歧视</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(benevolent sexism)</span></span><span>:语气温和,表面上看起来友好,实则以「保护」「关爱」为名,把女性放进柔弱、依赖、家庭化的角色框架中。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>相较而言,</span><strong><span><span>善意性别歧视更加具有误导性与危害性,因为它更容易被女性接受,也更难被直接反驳</span></span></strong><span><span>,</span></span><span><span style="font-weight: bold;">所以会持续地影响女性的自我期待和行为选择,让她们主动选择退一步,不去挑战规则、不去要求公平。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>它的基础在于传统的刻板印象和男性主导的文化,其后果往往是破坏性的。例如,一个男性对一个女同事说她看起来有多「可爱」,无论意图多么好,<span style="font-weight: normal;">都可能破坏她作为专业人士被认真对待的感觉。</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><span style="font-weight: bold;">善意的性别歧视是现实中性别不平等的重要预测因素</span></span><sup style="font-size: 12px;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>[2]</span></span></sup><span>。在男性支持善意性别歧视的社会,男性比女性受教育程度更高,识字率更高,赚更多的钱,更积极参与政治和经济领域。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nyEeafHpMia3WXJ8SybmnCk3TJCqw0FHI0ib7yRI68ItQKqONRSRoyevw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:上野千鹤子 东京大学毕业演讲</span></p></section></section></section><section><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 35%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nUUGbRllcI6D3GVFz1AqPlhPhG0k6HjWptwf1TGiabvs3vrcCiaERh77Q/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>因为「擅长」</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>就有做不完的女职与母职</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nrZ7UIqnsstwOPJcJXZibEnl5ib3vqOjX2CoeYsc26SEibplicdyJBrGk8w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>当今社会女性的有偿劳动时间在增加,越来越多女性在职场上承担重要角色,甚至成为家庭的经济支柱。但与此同时,</span><strong><span>她们在无偿家务和情绪劳动上的负担却并没有相应减少。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>比如在职场中,女性往往被默认为是情绪劳动的主要承担者:协调关系、安抚情绪、组织聚餐、接待客人……哪怕这些并不在她们职责范围内。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这种不对等,在家庭里更加根深蒂固。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>根据《第四期中国妇女社会地位调查》显示,</span><strong><span>在业</span></strong><strong><span>女性工作日的平均家务时间为 154 分钟,约为男性的两倍</span></strong><span>;在育儿方面,主要由母亲承担孩子的日常生活照料、辅导作业和接送的分别占 76.1%、67.5% 和 63.6%。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这些数字已经很扎心,但更隐蔽的伤害是:这些任务不仅不被认可,</span><span><strong><span>反而被当作天生属于女性的义务,因为女性「更擅长」,所以无从逃避、没有终点。</span></strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>就像传统观念中,厨房是「女人的地方」。而一旦这种劳动变成了可以拿工资的职业,比如当厨师、做大厨,又常常听到一句话——「女人当不了大厨」。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>很多女儿在成年后心疼自己为大家庭操劳的妈妈。劝她们注意身体、多休息,有些活能少干就少干。这时她们的妈妈往往会无力地回答一句</span><strong><span>「我不干,又有谁来干呢?」</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>其实吧,只要思路一打开,「她」不干,也许就不需要干了——</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>有韩国网友发布过一个帖子,说出了家族中「祭祀」风俗衰落的原因,让很多女性感到共情:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>「我奶奶家的儿媳都不回去。于是,奶奶家的祭祀就消失了。我这才明白,只要没有女人干活,祭祀也会一起消失,因为男人们根本就连祭祀的想法都没有」</span></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nqAFu6OHPLDts2gBUmvrfjbuAPB13yFKSzicyQ1HDv7FibM9SaROrl8mQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:网络</span></p></section></section></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nKPq3FR4pw36huHTShWl3jNGMiahhiaABzo4yHPMBA6vNTgq2PNSQGX7A/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:小红书</span></p></section></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>女性也会发现,嘿,</span><strong><span>能吃苦就有吃不完的苦,</span></strong><span>一旦自己不干了、也不管是谁来干了,真的是一身轻松啊!</span></p></section><section><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 35%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nc9f2v8pINb1DYm1YCI3nG8BEuvWKGrlRypQGVmibTYovfdLBM8GCcjg/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>削弱主体性</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>把女性视为被动、依附的存在</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nia4MDIHZK7Ilfib0L10eDdXCxbT0WicSHWXGnLr34j6IJR0ja2laQiabYQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这些话的共同之处在于:</span><strong><span>否认女性的主观意志和独立判断能力</span></strong><span>。在这样的叙述中,女性不能决定自己的身体如何被对待、不能决定自己的生活方式、不能决定自己对幸福的定义。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这背后是一种根深蒂固的客体思维</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(Objectification)</span></span><span>,当女性从小被社会训练为关注外表、被观看、被评价,甚至被当做「别人家的儿媳」来养育,</span><strong><span>使她们内化他人视角,将自己视作客体和对象,而非行动的主体。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>但现实正在撕裂这老套的剧本。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>近两年,社交媒体上「独居女性生存攻略」爆火,讨论主题从理财到法律、从心理成长到养老规划,无一不是把自己当主体的实践。她们不再等待他人的照顾,而是亲手建立属于自己的安全网。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>越来越多女性选择继续深造时,更加关心的是实现个人价值 / 学术理想,而非「是否会影响婚恋」;根据《2021年全国研究生招生调查报告》的数据,</span><strong><span>女性读研比例稳步上升</span></strong><span>,从 1999 年的 36.5% 上升到 2019 年的 55.1%。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>越来越多女性开始独立决策人生大事:择业、购房、婚恋。《女性居住消费调查报告 2022》显示,在全国 38 个样本城市,女性购房占比从 2017 年 45.54% 上升到 2021 年 48.65%。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>女性不再四处寻找依靠,而是在创造资产、创造价值、自我实现。在这样的现实下,当外界依然把她们视为被观看、被评价、被选择的客体,她们自然会感到愤怒、被冒犯。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>因为她们已经看清,那些看似关心的语句,只有一个目的——</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>试图否认正在发生的女性主体化进程,好让旧的脚本继续上演。</span></strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span><br /></span></strong></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5noE6eah5NzNYXdmESw0JFiaau6NTLGibKXEicW06WCibItnInGgenQdXgbQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:《女人唔易做》</span></p></section></section></section><section><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 35%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nsuE8Qhric10Ox7ia28LDuLSyU6pKkvcmckUicz6ic4bLcoQZfgjpleL03Q/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>被夺走的称呼</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>被污名的「女」字</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nG1yC4gPnsr7jLsPLSGdF5VzpV1WrjCndE5amhS8OGticK50DBj1kZJw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>污名化的语言是廉价的暴力。</span></strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>很多本该中性的词语,一旦加上一个「女」字,就突然多了一层不怀好意的讽刺,比如:「女博士」「女领导」「女司机」。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>其中最典型的,是「女司机」——这三个字本身就足以构成一种侮辱。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>更讽刺的是,根据《司法大数据专题报告之交通肇事罪特点和趋势(2016.1-2019.12)》对交通肇事行为人的分析,女性驾驶人平均万人发案率为 0.25,男性驾驶人平均万人发案率为 2.20,</span><strong><span>男性是女性驾驶人的 8.8 倍</span></strong><strong><span>。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>显然,污名并不在乎事实。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>与「女」有关的污名,背后是一个更深层的文化现象:</span><strong><span>语义贬降</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(semantic derogation)</span></span><span>,</span><strong><span>是指一个词语在历史演变过程中,其含义逐渐从褒义或中性,转变为贬义的语言现象。</span></strong><span>这一过程通常与社会文化、权力结构或性别偏见有关。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>比如在英语中:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>Hussy 原指「家庭主妇」,后变为「荡妇」</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>Spinster 原指「纺纱者」,后变为「老姑娘」</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>中文语境也不陌生——「小姐」「名媛」「妇女」「女神」「小仙女」「公主」……这些词都在流通过程中走向了滑坡。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><span style="font-weight: bold;">这个过程还常常伴随着「捧杀」</span>,先是过度抬高将女性捧为「女神」「公主」,构建一个虚假理想化的女性角色:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><ul class="list-paddingleft-1"><li><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>外貌美好</span></p></li><li><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>讨人喜欢</span></p></li><li><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>温顺乖巧</span></p></li><li><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>纯洁忠贞</span></p></li><li><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>不犯错、不拒绝、不发怒</span></p></li></ul><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>一旦女性表现出不符合这些特征的行为(比如拒绝、愤怒、主张边界、提出异议),</span><strong><span>甚至不需要换一套词,「公主」「小仙女」立马就可以反转变成讽刺。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这种虚伪的抬高本质是物化,把女性简化为一个观赏性符号,而不是有思想、有意志、有缺点的人。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>当一个群体被赋予某种崇高的标签,ta 们就必须表现得符合标签的要求,否则就会被惩罚,这是一种符号暴力</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(Symbolic Violence)</span></span><span>。</span><strong><span>最终实现的效果是,</span><span><span>女性要么自我规训,要么承受污名。</span></span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>要抵抗这一切,要从夺回语言的权力开始。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>不惧怕成为、被称为「妇女」,也可以直接表达自己的立场:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>请不要喊我女神、美女、先生、「xx」哥、「xx」爷;叫我小姐、女士、大妈都可以。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>用普通、清晰、直接的方式被称呼,本身就是一种尊重。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nb0WZZAHQbibymMSYRvibz0eAsSwoj0lJ7w3YWxDCVxuDMygaNXibOiaUaw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:腾讯视频《脱口秀和Ta的朋友们》</span></p></section></section></section><section><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 35%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5ndkNGga2QvHD7Z8EiagkUV1ia44xWVoPEt9EXkZOO9JOuyBj1Tiahme4LA/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>有些夸奖</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>本质上是幼化与钝化</span></strong></p></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5n5Pf4c2ibjbMHb3VpvDnWIcgzqCkPsaLxm6WExpcV0HY15W0qyODrm0w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这些夸奖听起来那么刺耳,因为它们不是真心在说「你很优秀」,而是在说「没想到你作为一个女人竟然能做到这件事」;或是用「小姑娘」「小可爱」等幼化的称呼,拿走她们的话语权。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>「女科学家」「女程序员」「女作家」等标签之所以常常被强调,也是因为大家默认这些领域是男性主场。通过不断标注「女性」身份,把女性在某些领域里的存在异化成稀缺和例外,</span><strong><span>从而削弱她们在这些领域的正当性。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这个过程,会增加女性的</span><span>归属性不确定</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>(belonging uncertainty)</span></span><span>,它指的是个体在特定群体或环境中,因身份差异而产生的「我真的适合 / 属于这里吗?」的怀疑感。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>在学术领域,</span><strong><span>归属不确定性是影响学术成就和坚持的重要决定因素</span></strong><sup style="font-size: 12px;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>[3]</span></span></sup><span>。它还可能会让女性在理工科、金融等男性主导的领域中更容易产生不自信感和职业倦怠。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>当一个人被提醒自己在特定任务中,属于一个被认为劣势的群体时,会引发焦虑、自我怀疑,导致其真实水平无法充分发挥。仅仅是提醒女生「女生数学不如男生」,就可能使她们在数学测验中成绩下降</span><sup style="font-size: 12px;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>[4]</span></span></sup><span>。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这些消极的心理暗示会钝化女性的发展力量,让她们在关键选择点上犹豫、退缩,甚至在尚未尝试前就自我劝退。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>面对带性别滤镜的夸奖,不妨试试用魔法打败魔法:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>「是吗?我们这个行业高层里很多女性,你都没接触过吗?」</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span>「科研不需要『不可爱』吧?不然你现在应该已经发 Nature 了」</span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong><span>当大家不再用「女」字为任何职业、成就做修饰,才是真正的平视。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5ngachH85qReFMzNCoQSo8NRx43qYJGG5YfHakUjq6hACMLu16Hevadw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:网络</span></p></section></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>这些让女性感觉到不适和愤怒的情形,只有被说出来,才能被更多人理解,也才有可能促成一种新的常识:</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>冒犯女性,不再会被轻描淡写地原谅。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>没有人可以在冒犯一个女性之后,用一句「我是好心」「开玩笑的」「你怎么这么较真啊」来推脱。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>那些「有句话不知当讲不当讲」的话,</span><strong><span>从一开始就不该被说出口。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 92%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5naTvV1812sicshibmPibtHaLnPhiaCg5LyCSAGibtfnnKia79QxMoSibtfuiciaA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 0px;"><section style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 13px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>图片来源:《甄嬛传》</span></p></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>如果你也听够了这些冒犯女性的语言,一键 </span><span><strong><span>转发</span></strong></span><span> ,接耳根清净、前途无量~</span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nUynyv0jG8Pb9U07HEibib6s4MiaxDWujibA0VLdkNX6oYAeRqqAulZwiaXQ/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section style="color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="margin: 0px; text-align: center;"><section><section><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 20%; height: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5n0a3iaSV3lzSXXkbfmwEicIBTpliaKozDJib3w8SybZv5VaLO2lId8mppQw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section><section style="text-align: justify; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(249, 110, 87); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>今日互动</span></strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 48, 48); line-height: 2; padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><font color="rgba(124, 0, 0, 0.749019607843137)"><span><b><span>你是否遇到过「善意」的冒犯?</span></b></span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><strong><span>是如何应对的?</span></strong></span></p></section><section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0;"><section style="vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="http://img2.jintiankansha.me/get?src=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/Mz0ovPEFMRI2sk6hCtYibyicQ5uhoW2A5nl7PmWqpJC44LZj8TJqckzbloRDMXwFV3qyjbug956hMVk71JeXTKCA/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg" style="vertical-align: middle; width: 100%;" /></section></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p></section><section><section style="text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; padding: 0px 15px; line-height: 1; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span>References:</span></p></section></section><section><section style="display: inline-block; width: 97%; height: 72px; vertical-align: top; padding: 10px; background-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><section style="overflow: hidden;"><section style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); text-align: left; font-size: 12px;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: rgba(1, 0, 0, 0);"><span>[1] Glick, P., & Fiske, S. T. (1996). The Ambivalent Sexism Inventory: Differentiating hostile and benevolent sexism. </span><em><span>Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 70</span></em><span>(3), 491–512.</span></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: rgba(1, 0, 0, 0);"><span>[2] Glick, P., Fiske, S. T., Mladinic, A., Saiz, J. L., Abrams, D., Masser, B., ... & López, W. L. (2000). Beyond prejudice as simple antipathy: hostile and benevolent sexism across cultures. </span><em><span>Journal of personality and social psychology, 79</span></em><span>(5), 763.</span></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: rgba(1, 0, 0, 0);"><span>[3] Höhne, E., & Zander, L. (2019). Sources of male and female students’ belonging uncertainty in the computer sciences. </span><em><span>Frontiers in psychology, 10</span></em><span>, 1740.</span></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: rgba(1, 0, 0, 0);"><span>[4] Spencer, S. J., Steele, C. M., & Quinn, D. M. (1999). Stereotype threat and women's math performance. </span><em><span>Journal of experimental social psychology, 35</span></em><span>(1), 4-28.</span></span></p></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 10px 0px 0px;"><section style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); padding: 0px 15px;"><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 13px;"><span><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><span>本文关键词:主体性</span><span><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><span>欢迎大家在 KY 账号内搜索你需要的科普,如果没提到,也可以在文章下留言~</span></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><span>图片源自网络,侵权请联系</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><span>搜索文章丨心理测试丨招聘丨转载丨合作 请戳菜单栏</span></span></p></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p style="white-space: normal; 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